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July 21, 2018 by: Gina

Sensory Processing Disorder: What it is and how to help your child

Filed Under: autism, featured

Sensory processing disorder is a common condition for children on the autism spectrum. Does your child have it? Let’s learn more about this disorder and what you can do to help your child from today’s guest post contributor, Susan Donohoe OTR/L, Certificate in Sensory Integration.

The “mummy” game is fun for some kids with sensory processing disorder!

Sensory processing is the brain’s way of processing and interpreting sensations within one’s own body and from the environment. It’s how we organize and interpret sensory input for everyday use, hence behavior. This is known as sensory integration.

Modulation is a term you may hear from your child’s doctor or therapist. It describes the neurological process in which the child’s central nervous system appropriately regulates or adjusts responses to changing external and internal sensory input.

What is Sensory Processing Disorder?

Sensory Processing Disorder

When this modulation is not working well, your child may have sensory processing disorder (SPD). He may seem overwhelmed by sensory stimuli or completely unresponsive to it – or both. An example is if your child jumps if small blocks fall over or if he seems oblivious to the cold. Sensory processing disorder is diagnosed when this when this behavior interferes with a child’s “occupation” in life (play, school, attention, etc.).

It’s important to note that everyone has some sensory processing problems from time to time. Sensory stimuli can temporarily disrupt anyone’s normal functioning.

The three main sensory systems we are referring to include:

  • Tactile and touch systems which influence motor control and emotional development.
  • Proprioception, the sensation you feel through your own muscles, ligaments, and skin. It gives a sense of body position, organization, and calibration of movement.
  • Vestibular, the sense of movement and gravity. This specifically refers to postural control, muscle tone, coordinated use of both sides of the body, coordinating eye movements, etc..

Other sensory systems include olfactory (smell), auditory, visual, and gustatory (taste).

Sensory Processing Disorder Affects Kids Differently

Sensory processing disorder is individual to each child diagnosed with it. Some kids may have greater difficulty functioning in life due to SPD than others. It is important to note that symptoms vary and not all need to be present. Additionally, children with neurological dysfunction can show symptoms one day and not the next, or during one activity and not another.

If your child is diagnosed with SPD, you will likely be referred to a Sensory Certified Occupational Therapist is trained in diagnosing and treating this disorder. A good therapist will provide your child with a safe and challenging level of sensory stimulation that encourages movement. This helps focus your child on tolerating and integrating different sensory inputs. His interests and the “occupation” of play often drive the session. In addition, therapy includes making environmental adaptations, such as in the home and school.

Some Symptoms of Sensory Processing Disorder Include:

  • clumsy (tripping, bumping, falling)
  • poor fine motor skills
  • delayed self-care skills
  • poor muscle tone
  • difficulty initiating tasks
  • poor timing
  • easily frustrated
  • poor eye-hand coordination
  • learning disabilities
  • poor handwriting
  • constantly touching objects
  • poor organization skills
  • difficulty with social relations
  • doesn’t like to be groomed (hair, teeth, etc)
  • difficulty with seams, socks, waistbands
  • poor posture
  • seeks only soft clothes
  • likes tight clothing, small spaces, weighted & heavy blankets
  • opposed to being touched,  would rather be the one to touch
  • hates being tickled or cuddled
  • often touches people or objects too hard
  • difficulty with eye contact
  • often smells objects
  • poor attention skills
  • picky eater
  • stuffing food or objects into the mouth
  • difficulty with transitioning
  • hypersensitive to noise (things are too loud)
  • hypo-sensitive to noise (doesn’t seem to notice)
  • Hypersensitive to touch, certain fabrics, surfaces, etc
  • little awareness of pain and temperature
  • hypo-sensitive to touch (doesn’t notice when clothes are twisted or on improperly)
  • hypersensitive to light
  • movement produces an anxious reaction (swinging, roller coasters, bike riding, spinning, rolling)
  • over seeks movement (swinging, spinning, rolling)
  • takes excessive risks in movement, extreme activity levels
  • walking on tiptoes

 

As mentioned above, making adaptations within the child’s everyday life is also a part of understanding the child. One of the child’s “occupations” is self-care such as dressing.

DRESSING FOR SUCCESS WITH SENSORY PROCESSING DISORDER!

Everyone Has Sensory Issues

Every child deserves to feel comfortable and beautiful in their clothing. What if that same clothing could also address sensory discomfort and provide therapeutic input? That can improve your child’s image of himself and how he feels in his environment! Furthermore, it could enhance his social and emotional quality of life because he now feels organized and calm.

We all have sensory qualities that make us who we are, however, these neurological qualities can interrupt our lives in a negative way. There are many children with different diagnoses that have sensory issues, such as being overly sensitive, lacking sensory input, motor difficulties, and social differences. Some of those diagnoses include autism, ADHD,  anxiety, and other developmental disabilities. Why not make their clothing possess some of the very qualities that can help improve their social and emotional well being?

Kids Find SPD Too Distracting

As a mother of a child who suffered from sensory processing disorder and as a long time Sensory Pediatric Occupational Therapist and advocate, I know first- and it is not easy for our children.

Many kids with sensory processing disorder suffer from preoccupations with:

  • tactile discomfort
  • a desire to chew
  • difficulty with spatial awareness
  • disorganization
  • difficulty with motor skills
  • hyper- or hypo-activity
  • social and emotional difficulties

Parents Can Help Their Kids With Weighted Clothing & Other Items

Parents, therapists, and educators often express to me the benefits of weighed garments, chew objects, compression garments, and a child’s desire for soft materials but hey frequently complain that what is offered to them is too” therapeutic” looking. It’s hard to use many of these garments throughout “normal” life without standing out or being stigmatized.

Clothing and toys that are beautiful, functional, and unique should be available for parents and their children. Their likes and style should be taken into consideration as well as their ability to take some therapeutic items with them anywhere they go.

When a garment is being constructed to address children who suffer sensory processing disorder, special consideration should be made to address the following:

  • ease of function
  • tactile sensitivity,
  • relevant design
  • safety
  • consistency in design for spatial orientation
  • proprioceptive input, that is the unconscious awareness of sensations coming from receptors in your child’s joints, muscles, tendons, and ligaments

This can help promote your child’s independence as well as organization, alertness, and simplicity.

When choosing a weighted vest or blanket, it’s important to hear the child ask specifically for the one that is soft, cool, or nice. It is equally important to provide parents with beautiful, easy-to-use, and superior fabrics that are relevant and stylish. Kids should be able to access products that don’t stigmatize them.

Effective Sensory Strategies

sensory processing disorder : does your child have it?

Using proper sensory strategies can help a child with sensory processing disorder, therefore, considering the aspects of their clothing is a great way that parents can help their child. It lets him know that you understand and accept what he is feeling!

Respect, pleasure, playfulness, comfort, and a feeling of security are aspects that can be the fabric of their clothing! Above all, fashion with therapeutic value should express the darling nature and playfulness inherent in children.

Today’s guest post was authored by Susan Donohoe OTR/L, Certificate in Sensory Integration, who was the founder of Prince’s Sensory Delights, now Kozie’s Clothes, which specializes in clothing for children with SPD and special needs.

 

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Comments

  1. Jessica says

    January 18, 2011 at 4:18 pm

    In my experience, sensory processing disorder is always related to a food and/or even more likely yeast overgrowth. Eliminate the two problems and the child becomes SPD free!

    • admin says

      January 18, 2011 at 4:25 pm

      The more I read about yeast, the more I see it as a big problem in our home. It’s definitely a top question for our doctor’s visit!

  2. Jessica says

    January 18, 2011 at 4:18 pm

    In my experience, sensory processing disorder is always related to a food and/or even more likely yeast overgrowth. Eliminate the two problems and the child becomes SPD free!

    • admin says

      January 18, 2011 at 4:25 pm

      The more I read about yeast, the more I see it as a big problem in our home. It’s definitely a top question for our doctor’s visit!

  3. Heather says

    January 18, 2011 at 9:09 pm

    Thanks for getting the word out about SPD. My son has been in therapy for a couple of years now. Unfortunately, food doesn’t always make the difference. SPD can be so much more complex. I wish it were that easy. Trust me, I’m a mom who’s tried pretty much everything!

    • admin says

      January 18, 2011 at 11:38 pm

      Hi Heather! I’m sorry to hear that food changes haven’t helped..you are right, though. It’s extremely complicated! I do trust you, but I have to try. I will say that either way, we can find a way for Zoe that will help her live a good life. It’s just worth a shot that something can get better, maybe, if we’re very fortunate.

  4. Heather says

    January 18, 2011 at 9:09 pm

    Thanks for getting the word out about SPD. My son has been in therapy for a couple of years now. Unfortunately, food doesn’t always make the difference. SPD can be so much more complex. I wish it were that easy. Trust me, I’m a mom who’s tried pretty much everything!

    • admin says

      January 18, 2011 at 11:38 pm

      Hi Heather! I’m sorry to hear that food changes haven’t helped..you are right, though. It’s extremely complicated! I do trust you, but I have to try. I will say that either way, we can find a way for Zoe that will help her live a good life. It’s just worth a shot that something can get better, maybe, if we’re very fortunate.

  5. admin says

    January 29, 2011 at 9:45 pm

    Hi Bethany, thank you! First of all, I know that feeling of relief when you understand what is causing your child’s issues and can create a plan to deal with them. Zoe was diagnosed with sensory issues at age 2.

    Secondly, I TOTALLY need to hook you up with someone. I am online friends with Eileen Miller, who wrote “The Girl who Spoke with Pictures”. Kim also had the same skill – drawing – despite autism and sensory issues, and now as a young adult, is an artist in her own right. She not only illustrated the book, she is artistically gifted (and amazing) in a whole host of mediums. Go ahead and hit the contact form, Bethany, and let me know if I can help. I’m so thrilled for you!

    5 kids! When do you have time for life, lol… My hat’s off to you, I can barely handle two!

  6. admin says

    January 29, 2011 at 9:45 pm

    Hi Bethany, thank you! First of all, I know that feeling of relief when you understand what is causing your child’s issues and can create a plan to deal with them. Zoe was diagnosed with sensory issues at age 2.

    Secondly, I TOTALLY need to hook you up with someone. I am online friends with Eileen Miller, who wrote “The Girl who Spoke with Pictures”. Kim also had the same skill – drawing – despite autism and sensory issues, and now as a young adult, is an artist in her own right. She not only illustrated the book, she is artistically gifted (and amazing) in a whole host of mediums. Go ahead and hit the contact form, Bethany, and let me know if I can help. I’m so thrilled for you!

    5 kids! When do you have time for life, lol… My hat’s off to you, I can barely handle two!

  7. Christina says

    March 1, 2011 at 9:45 pm

    To put this very lightly, I need help. I am an army wife to a deployed soldier who won’t be returning until November of this year. I am currently a SAHM to my BEAUTIFUL son who’s 2 years old and has “the worst case of SPD” his OT has ever seen in her 37 years of practice. I’m 32 weeks pregnant right now and I am at such a loss. I have tried every single thing I can. Every behavior therapy available to him, all of the patience in the world (which is getting thinner as my pregnancy progresses) and all of the SPD products out there, chewy toys, wilbarger brushes, weighted blankets, soft clothing, a very strict bed time routine. I don’t know what else to do! My son DOES NOT sleep. At all. Maybe 3 hours a day and that’s it, I can’t even fathom what it’s going to be like when the new baby arrives. What is this yeast you guys have mentioned? ANY advice at all would help.

    • admin says

      March 1, 2011 at 10:38 pm

      Christina, there is so much I want to say to you! First of all, Breathe. Deep. You need to take care of yourself, so the first thing is find a way to get him to sleep. Have you tried melatonin supplement? Doing that allowed Zoe to sleep 4 solid hours at the beginning of the night BUT when we combined it with cutting out dairy and putting her to bed early, she started sleeping through the night. We’ve also kept the room dark..we used to leave a nightlight on. Plus she’s in preschool, and added routine. It was a number of measures and still there was recently a night she didn’t sleep. She is 5 though, and this the first luck we’ve had with solid sleep since either ever, or maybe age 1.

      OK, I read about yeast / candida in “Healing the New Childhood Epidemics” by Dr. Kenneth Bock, I don’t know much else.

      Please connect with me on Facebook, if you have an account there. I have a great, private group that I may be able to invite you to that is full of parents knowledgeable about biomeds who can help you. Reach out to me in my contact form too, if you like! I’ll say a prayer for you. Do you have a support group at all where you are?

  8. Christina says

    March 1, 2011 at 9:45 pm

    To put this very lightly, I need help. I am an army wife to a deployed soldier who won’t be returning until November of this year. I am currently a SAHM to my BEAUTIFUL son who’s 2 years old and has “the worst case of SPD” his OT has ever seen in her 37 years of practice. I’m 32 weeks pregnant right now and I am at such a loss. I have tried every single thing I can. Every behavior therapy available to him, all of the patience in the world (which is getting thinner as my pregnancy progresses) and all of the SPD products out there, chewy toys, wilbarger brushes, weighted blankets, soft clothing, a very strict bed time routine. I don’t know what else to do! My son DOES NOT sleep. At all. Maybe 3 hours a day and that’s it, I can’t even fathom what it’s going to be like when the new baby arrives. What is this yeast you guys have mentioned? ANY advice at all would help.

    • admin says

      March 1, 2011 at 10:38 pm

      Christina, there is so much I want to say to you! First of all, Breathe. Deep. You need to take care of yourself, so the first thing is find a way to get him to sleep. Have you tried melatonin supplement? Doing that allowed Zoe to sleep 4 solid hours at the beginning of the night BUT when we combined it with cutting out dairy and putting her to bed early, she started sleeping through the night. We’ve also kept the room dark..we used to leave a nightlight on. Plus she’s in preschool, and added routine. It was a number of measures and still there was recently a night she didn’t sleep. She is 5 though, and this the first luck we’ve had with solid sleep since either ever, or maybe age 1.

      OK, I read about yeast / candida in “Healing the New Childhood Epidemics” by Dr. Kenneth Bock, I don’t know much else.

      Please connect with me on Facebook, if you have an account there. I have a great, private group that I may be able to invite you to that is full of parents knowledgeable about biomeds who can help you. Reach out to me in my contact form too, if you like! I’ll say a prayer for you. Do you have a support group at all where you are?

  9. Christina says

    March 2, 2011 at 11:29 pm

    My name on facebook is Christina Marie Polanco, I’m located in Fort Hood, Texas. Actually we don’t have a support group out here and to top that off, his primary care physician has never even heard of SPD, he’s very young though and may not be educated in this matter. If you can find me on facebook that would be great. There are just days where I feel like I’m not doing everything I can for my son. If I need to make diet changes on top of everything else I’m doing I will. I pray for relief for these children. I know God only gives you what you can handle, and that he trusted me with my son, but I feel like I’m failing. I have such a fear that I’m a disappointment to my son because I can’t help him. ANY help I can get at this point would be so appreciated. My email address is futuremrspolanco@yahoo.com. Anyone who reads this and has any advice on alternative treatments feel free to email me. Thank you, and I will pray for all of your little ones as well.
    -Christina

  10. Christina says

    March 2, 2011 at 11:29 pm

    My name on facebook is Christina Marie Polanco, I’m located in Fort Hood, Texas. Actually we don’t have a support group out here and to top that off, his primary care physician has never even heard of SPD, he’s very young though and may not be educated in this matter. If you can find me on facebook that would be great. There are just days where I feel like I’m not doing everything I can for my son. If I need to make diet changes on top of everything else I’m doing I will. I pray for relief for these children. I know God only gives you what you can handle, and that he trusted me with my son, but I feel like I’m failing. I have such a fear that I’m a disappointment to my son because I can’t help him. ANY help I can get at this point would be so appreciated. My email address is futuremrspolanco@yahoo.com. Anyone who reads this and has any advice on alternative treatments feel free to email me. Thank you, and I will pray for all of your little ones as well.
    -Christina

  11. Jana says

    May 25, 2011 at 9:29 pm

    I’m so thankful to have stumbled upon this site! Our 5 year old has SPD (he’s a sensory seeker) and during his first year of pre-school they told us they had never seen a child like him (one who didn’t respond to their “behavior plans”). It’s so comforting to know that I am not alone. The more I search, the more I realize that 🙂

    • admin says

      May 28, 2011 at 7:57 pm

      Hi Jana, here’s another thing I’VE seen: teachers, care providers, doctors, therapists and psychologists who were flat out WRONG. Here’s the deal: NOBODY knows your son like you, and no one can give him the proper therapy or “behavior plan” without your say-so Read up, experiment, and join a support group with other parents and you will learn a ton. Then you can put your foot down when people or “experts” say thoughtless things. Good luck, BTW, love your blog 🙂

  12. Jana says

    May 25, 2011 at 9:29 pm

    I’m so thankful to have stumbled upon this site! Our 5 year old has SPD (he’s a sensory seeker) and during his first year of pre-school they told us they had never seen a child like him (one who didn’t respond to their “behavior plans”). It’s so comforting to know that I am not alone. The more I search, the more I realize that 🙂

    • admin says

      May 28, 2011 at 7:57 pm

      Hi Jana, here’s another thing I’VE seen: teachers, care providers, doctors, therapists and psychologists who were flat out WRONG. Here’s the deal: NOBODY knows your son like you, and no one can give him the proper therapy or “behavior plan” without your say-so Read up, experiment, and join a support group with other parents and you will learn a ton. Then you can put your foot down when people or “experts” say thoughtless things. Good luck, BTW, love your blog 🙂

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