I received a copy of this book to facilitate this review; all opinions are my own.
I’m embarrassed to say that I’ve made the colossal mistake in teaching Amelia about my faith that I should not have: I’ve pushed too hard.
There are a few elements of this in play: one, she hates to read. (Yea, heart broken over that one.) So pushing her to sit with me and listen to stories every night has turned her OFF. I did catch her perusing a book that I had left for her to find and started working with her on some of that.
That lasted about 3 nights.
I know that part of this failing is my own inconsistency, and part of this is that she is fast approaching 13, an age where it’s easy to get bored with EVERYTHING.
I have hope but I need to take a different approach. Being a teen is as much about discovering who you are and your own space as it is about development and growing maturity. Where does she fit in this world? It’s uniquely a question a parent cannot answer, though we really want to try and help.
I’m giving her a copy of the NIV, Bible for Teen Girls, Hardcover: Growing in Faith, Hope, and Love from Zondervan. This Bible, designed for girls aged 13-18, includes the promises of God highlighted in pink throughout and provides girls with advice, insight and discussion about the reality of teen life. Each book of the Bible starts with a section covering when it happened, who’s in the book, familiar verses as well as an overview of what it’s about.
Rather than attack her with daily readings, I need to be more creative I’ll leave the book where she’ll find it. I’ve put random sticky notes of encouragement inside, along with some of her own artwork, so that she knows this book belongs to her, and her alone. I’ll keep adding to them as well.
This Bible also features:
- DAILY READINGS by popular Christian female authors including Bethany Hamilton (Soul Surfer), Annie Downs, Christine Caine, Nicole Weider, Elsa Kok Colopy, Crystal Kirgiss, Bekah Hamrick Martin, Denise Van Eck, and more
- CHARACTER PROFILES of women in the Bible
- BOOK INTRODUCTIONS for each book of the Bible
- HIGHLIGHTED PROMISES OF GOD are verses worth remembering
- A CONCORDANCE for help in finding verses
- The bestselling NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION (NIV) of the Bible
I hope she reads it but I have to do my part, too. I need to do much more praying – that’s where Christian parenting starts, right? Instead of worrying about praying with her (which I still do, although I need to be sneaky about it at times), I must get my own head more diligent in praying for her.
I want her to choose God. I cannot say, “Well, she’s disabled so automatic pass to heaven.” (Yes, I’ve thought that.) She has her own mind and is growing in maturity and needs to understand where Jesus fits in her life, aside from what she already knows. This will also encourage me to get more in-depth in my nightly prayers for both my children and influence me to come up more ways to teach her about the Lord.
Won’t you pray with me that my girls find their way to Christ, in spite of my own imperfect attempts at teaching them?
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Andrea says
What a great book and giveaway! My daughter is the same age as yours, and while she hasn’t been pushing back on Bible teaching, I know it may come very soon. I love the idea of this Bible just for girls – great idea for Christmas present!
I think your plan of praying for her and trying to fit in faith wherever you can on her level and in “sneaky” ways is spot on. God is creative when teaching us; why shouldn’t we be with our kids?
Gina says
Thanks Andrea! That’s a good way of looking at it – that God is “sneaky” with us, LOL! For me it’s a lot like what my dad used to say about mom, “I chased her until she caught me.” It’s like that: I chased God until He caught me too 🙂
godlyindianmom says
Although I m mom of boys.I will pray for your daughters to find their interest. in reading.blessings
Gina says
Thank you!
brianna says
Great giveaway. Now if only you had a teen boy one. 🙂
Gina says
Hi Brianna, There is an NIV “Revolution” Bible for teen boys, but I’d research it first to make sure you’re comfortable with it – I don’t know that version at all.
Chris Carter says
Oh it’s just such a hard balance between pushing and being consistent and letting go and trying to figure out how much is too much. Heck for me, I drop the ball too many times in bible study or reading with my girl… I’m heartbroken and ashamed about this very thing.
This bible looks AMAZING. I have a 12 year old who would LOVE it. Off to raffle me some copter!! LOL
Gina says
Oh my gosh, that is precisely where I’m at!! What a challenge. Doing the best I can, I guess 🙂