A couple of years ago, I felt a fever coming on. It was challenging – I couldn’t afford to get sick at that time! There were some very important things going on that required my full attention and I didn’t have the time to be sick. This post contains my affiliate links.
I mean, who does? However, I refuse to use over the counter drugs. I believe they only suppress natural immunity and can actually extend your cold, rather than letting your body do the work.
And, recently the kids got sick. This is a good thing! They rarely do, but as they heal from the autoimmune issues that so commonly accompany autism or Down syndrome. This is something I’ve known for years. Here’s something I wrote in the early days of being a mom:
But wait, no, there’s good news! Firstly, Zoe’s fever IS a good news – they are so rare. Could it be that the autoimmune issues are somehow getting better? Her fever came out of the BLUE but it was really high, considering she woke up well and I got the call from school around 11am. I was determined that Chris and I would NOT have the Tylenol / fever med argument again. (Read about the dangers of acetaminophen here.)
You see, I believe that fevers are the body’s method of healing itself. I did a little research, and found some great information. One site had a guest post from a pediatrician who believed in home remedies, and said to watch your child NOT the temperature. Well, Zoe was suffering. I mean, super suffering. I read some of the home remedy suggestions. One said to soak socks in egg whites – from pastured eggs only – and put on the feet of the patient. Well THAT was not happening! Zoe immediately screamed and kicked them off.
So I went back to the egg whites, soaked a paper towel, gently captured her feet on my legs, and coated her feet bottoms like they were egg bagels. The results?
Within an hour, she was almost back to normal! She even asked for a shower a little later. The next day she was almost fine, but I had to wait out that 24 hour window for fever before sending her back to school. She enjoyed her class Halloween parade and party – not a trace of illness left!
Great right? Just by sitting back, not worrying and caring for her needs the best I could, my girl got healed. I think that’s the Big Lesson for me this week.
To this day, I’m not sure whether or not this was an old wive’s tale that I put my faith in or there is something to this. (I swear I just saw an article about a “cold feet” solution but I can’t find it, so I’ll skip it for now.) And healing was taking place at the time, this post was the first time my girl independently went to the potty:
But wait, there’s more! When I gave up stress over her situation, I never dreamed that things would heal. I’m not saying miracles can’t happen, I just thought I had to manage them. Today, the teachers called me and put Zoe on the phone, who used her ProLoQuo2Go app to tell me that she peed on the potty -twice! It was her first time ever 🙂
And that’s not all! I’m not sure if I’ve mentioned this, but Zoe had incredible difficulty writing letters. They just looked like wavy lines. She can manage a few, like an “E” which has the 5 lines in the right direction but not the right places. Today, I reviewed her weekly vocabulary with her. We are filling in blank letter spaces with the correct letter. I was blessed today with a PERFECT “R”, “U” and “p” – all on her own, without me even touching her hand. Yay!
We are still moving ahead with the homeopath, who I met last week and am waiting on recommendations, but this is just wonderful. No food interventions, just straight up communications, redirection, and highly skilled teachers and aides, home support and a very large helping of faith and trust in God.
Naturally Healing a Fever
But back to the near-fever I encountered. I felt terrible. You know when you are CERTAIN that by the time you go to bed you’ll wake up with a fever? Maybe your joints show signs of soreness, or your head feels sort of feverish rather just warm, or you are far more tired than you should be?
I was freaked out at first, especially since I ate crappy food yesterday, pretty much nothing but glutens. I was feeling guilty after we made something for the kids and my husband and I agree on takeout pizza. Knowing my diet the day before was bad, I quickly whipped up a traditional juice. The ingredients (all organic):
- 8 ounces of filtered water
- 1 orange
- 1 handful of kale
- 1 green apple
- 1/2 teaspoon (as per directions) of Organic India Moringa Essential Nutrition Leaf Powder
- 1 packet of NOW Foods Probiotic 10
Before I drank that, I took 1 tube of Boiron® Oscillococcinum®, melted under my tongue, and had another when I woke up.
Guess what? NO FEVER. No nothing. I’m tired, but I don’t feel sick at all.
Vitamin C, calcium, and magnesium are also helpful and that a body with a high fever is depleted in those resources. As long as it’s ok for you to take those vitamins, you may want to try them. Right now, I’m taking Juice Plus regularly since multivitamins tend to make my blood levels out of whack (I’m on blood thinners). Plus, so easy to get your ALL fruits and veggies in a food-based format every day!!
Giving up control really works, but so does taking minor illnesses into your own hands. Here are the resources I used to research caring for naturally healing a fever for my kids:
- Mommypotamus 5 Ways to Treat a Fever Naturally: Dr. Wendy Sue Swanson advises parents to watch the child, which is what I did. This is where I got the egg white remedy. I read that it acts the same: FAST, in minutes from anecdotes around the web. There is no research on this, but who cares? If it works, it works!
- To learn more about why fevers are good and fever reducers AREN’T, check out “Don’t Fear the Fever.”
- Have sleep issues reared their ugly heads again? (They have here.) A friend who is unable to remove dairy from her son’s diet told me tonight that tart cherry juice has the highest content of melatonin – and she has successfully used it to get him to sleep every night – we’re talking about a child with longtime sleep issues! She just sticks in something chocolate and he’ll eat it 🙂
- I also just wrote about how supplements can help boost immunity and sleep.
Gina B says
You’re welcome, Esetelle! I find it really hard to NOT reduce the fever, but my knowledgable autism mama friends have ensured me they almost never reduce it, except for those who have kids with seizures. Let me encourage you to use Ibuprofen instead of Tylenol, if you must. Mainstream article on Tylenol dangers: http://abcnews.go.com/Health/PainNews/story?id=7699582 More comprehensive article: http://www.psmag.com/health/understand-risks-tylenol-probably-66879/
Barb @ A Life in Balance says
I think I’ll try the tart cherry juice with my teenager who has sleeping issues. Good luck this week!
Gina B says
Oh it’s been an all-around better week so far! Good luck.
Caitlin says
Thank you for the link on how to treat fever naturally. I always want to avoid medicines and go the natural route.
Gina B says
Good for you! And good for your family too 🙂
Lauryn says
Gina, you are amazing! How inspiring to read this post. Good for you for sticking to what you believe. This week, I am learning that I need to be a bit more patient. Okay, maybe a lot more.
Gina B says
Thanks Lauryn! Well, I was amazing last week, this week? Patience flew out the window 30 seconds after the kids came home and Zoe reset our thermostat and internet – and I couldn’t figure out how to get it back on! That’s also my only PHONE so I was cut off. Yeesh…
Colleen (Souffle Bombay) says
Egg whites – how interesting! So happy she is well! My son used to get fever viruses often from 3-8 Once it lasted over a week with temps 105-107.5 One doc said let it run…no meds etc. But he was so exhausted and hot I had to double dose him to keep it down. Never want to go back t those days! It is always hard to know what choice is right – I just say mom’s know their kids and should follow their guts.
Gina B says
I agree, but I’ve never been comfortable with medications, so I’m much happier now that I feel I can trust home remedies. Plus it saves tons of money…and trips to the store 🙂
Jessica @FoundtheMarbles says
I don’t know what I am learning this week. The lesson has not presented itself just yet. Glad to hear that things are turning a corner in your house!
Gina B says
Yea, I know that feeling. Sometimes the lesson you learn is that you need more time and more sleep. Oh wait, that’s every week!
Carrie says
I feel that way about fevers, too. I generally try to let them run their course unless my kids are miserable. Good trick to know about the eggs!
Gina B says
Yea, crazy the things you learn on the internet that turn out to be true!
Janeane Davis says
First and most importantly, I am glad your baby got better. I am also glad that you let go and just relaxed a little. That is the hardest thing for a mom to do. We always say let go and let God, but then we take it back. I am glad to see you didn’t do that.
Gina B says
Good point, we do always take it back, don’t we? Foolish humans 🙂
Gina B says
Ok, that is SO cool! I remember the first day Amelia made her own toast, about the same age. It’s an awesome day.
Mary Ellen says
Very Interesting. Have you ever connected with Heidi of Gaia Health?
As a parent of a child who was overtreated with the wrost of outcomes, I appreciate the discussion and awareness for natural remedies and parents being a full engaged member of the child’s treatment team – no matter how acute the condition.
Gina B says
Hi Mary Ellen, no I don’t know her – I’ll have to look her up! Yes, I always try to do that.